Day 3 | Overcoming The Fear of Man
Proverbs 25:29, “Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.”
The fear of man is an unhealthy addiction to what people may think and say about you (in other words, “man pleasing”). Most commonly the fear of man manifests itself in the sin of hypocrisy. Take for example a new believer joins the discipleship class under the agreement to be accountable to a certain moral code like abstaining from pornography. But over time if the disciple begins to fear man more than fear God they will be unable to confess to their leader when they fall in this area because they are afraid of what the leadership will say or do.
Sometimes it is true that people in leadership can mentally intimidate and abuse those under them, but in most cases the godly leader is not a “Secret Service Spy,” but rather a concerned accountability partner that desires to see the disciple succeed and achieve their goal of being porn free! James said in James 5:16, “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.”
The above Proverb teaches that whenever we fear man more than God we will be trapped by man’s opinions and bound to our sins. However, if we follow the Biblical pattern and openly confess our sins and weaknesses to each other we can overcome our hypocrisy and live free from the fear of man, Galatians 6:1.
Other times, disciples fall into the trap of being “man-pleasers” instead of being “God-pleasers” because they fear not having a certain man’s approval. Maybe a new singer is working with the worship team and instead of being honest about some of the songs they sing they lie and always say they love them. However, if they would be honest, without being rude or rebellious, they could actually benefit the group because maybe others feel the same.
Therefore, the fear of man is never good and its outcome is always, (1) Guilt and condemnation to the one with the fear, & (2) Shallow unfruitful disingenuous relationships with those they are around.
What’s the solution to those who have the fear of man? Simple. Fear God alone! Do you want to be free from the fear of man? Pray this out loud, “Heavenly Father, I ask that I will not fear man, but only fear you. Empower me to always live an open and honest life with all those around me. Amen.”
Reflection
Have you ever been fake because of the fear of man?
Action
- Repent of the times you have allowed the fear of man to make you a hypocrite.
- Ask God for a deep understanding of the fear of the Lord, Proverbs 8:13.
- Live your life with honesty, transparency, and the fear of the Lord. Because what does it matter what “man” says about you, God already knows who you are!